Past Death...
- Stephen Kingsnorth
- Mar 24
- 1 min read
I did not know her, here laid out,
a careful combing of the hair
not as I’d known it set before -
forehead laid bare, cleared silver strands;
not of my choosing, frame beside.
But father told he wanted this,
a final farewell to his wife,
though he knew, as did I, full-well,
she long had left; this trolley bare,
enforced that spirit flown the room.
By absence seeping beads drawn down -
the knowledge that we paused alone,
skeletal cage deserted now.
And since, the question posed myself -
should I dissuade through queries raised?
Poor memory’s now fixed in place -
this mask should not replace her face;
some say dread visit reinforced,
that shock fires mould of empty clay -
unnecessary proof for me.
For him, for his, I dare not say;
the sixty years entitle him
to linger, lose, yet loose again
the bond and knots that tied them close.
And sons accompany past death.
I found this poem to be incredibly moving Stephen. Particularly the opening verse and the lines 'skeletal cage deserted now' and 'this mask should not replace her face', here I felt an instant connection to my own experiences. The poem is beautiful in it's melancholy, if that makes sense. Thank you for sharing.