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Writer's picturePaulette Mehta

CAREGIVERS

Updated: Oct 30

They come in shifts, one by one,  to care for my husband--

to bathe him, to dress him, to shower him too,

to feed him, to read to him, to talk to him, and to care for him

to take him to the park, and sometimes to shop.

to put him to bed, and put him to sleep,

to massage him, and read to him, and listen to him.

 

They take him on trips downtown to the city,

to houses of friends, to meetings and meet-ups,

even on cruises with family too.

They take him to the clinic, to the dentist, to pt and ot,

and call for help whenever it's needed,

shift after shift after shift after shift,


 I used to be a doctor in a hospital far from home

till I retired for good, and now the hospital is home

and I am the director of all of the shifts,

while I watch my husband get weaker and weaker,

and lose his ability to walk and to speak.


Still loving the once vigorous man

now dependent on nurses

who care give, and give care.


I am a retired physician with PD and also a caregiver to my husband with COVID-induced late-stage neuropathy.

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Thank you for such a moving tribute to those who care-A truly heartfelt poem.💕

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Sounds like a caregiver (CG) who is as good as gold, a real keeper. You know you have struck gold when the patient relaxes, smiles, and breathes a sigh of relief upon hearing her voice. After working with several CG it got to the point that I would prefer no CG than just any CG. Then along came the answer to my prayers, my Mary Poppins for adults with PD.

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